Am I Lesbian? – Self-Discovery Quiz
The Am I Lesbian Quiz is designed to help individuals explore their sexual orientation and understand if they may identify as a lesbian. If you’ve ever questioned your attraction to women, this quiz can offer guidance on your journey of self-discovery.


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Who can take this quiz?
Anyone who is questioning their romantic or sexual attraction toward women can take this quiz. It is open to individuals at any stage of their self-exploration process.
What purpose does this quiz serve?
This quiz provides a space for introspection, helping individuals reflect on their attractions and feelings. While not a definitive answer, it can offer clarity and direction in understanding lesbian identity.
How does the quiz work?
The Am I Lesbian Quiz consists of multiple-choice questions about your experiences, attractions, and thoughts regarding relationships. Based on your responses, it provides insight into whether you may identify as a lesbian. The quiz is private, simple, and meant for personal exploration.
General Frequently Asked Questions
Being a lesbian means experiencing romantic and/or sexual attraction exclusively to women. Some lesbians may identify more with one aspect (romantic or sexual), but all share a deep connection to woman-loving-woman identities.
Yes! Your past experiences don’t define your identity. Many lesbians have dated men due to societal expectations or personal exploration before realizing they are only attracted to women. Your identity is valid regardless of your past.
Admiration is appreciating someone’s beauty or personality, while attraction includes a deeper emotional or romantic pull. If you find yourself wanting to be with women in a romantic or intimate way, you might be a lesbian or somewhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum.
Yes. Lesbians are only attracted to women, while bisexual people experience attraction to more than one gender. If you feel exclusively drawn to women, “lesbian” might be the best label for you. If you’re also attracted to other genders, bisexual or another identity might fit better.
No, this quiz is just a tool to help you reflect on your feelings. Only you can determine your identity, and it’s okay to take time exploring what feels right.
You can explore LGBTQ+ communities, read about lesbian experiences, and reflect on your feelings over time. Talking to other lesbians or journaling about your attractions may also help you gain clarity. There’s no rush—self-discovery is a personal journey!
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