Do I Like Them or Just Their Attention? – Self-Reflection Quiz
The Do I Like Them or Just Their Attention Quiz is designed to help individuals explore their emotions and motivations in relationships. If you’ve ever questioned whether your feelings stem from genuine interest or the validation of attention, this quiz can provide clarity.


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Who can take this quiz?
Anyone experiencing uncertainty about their romantic feelings can take this quiz. Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, or simply reflecting on past experiences, this quiz is for those seeking self-awareness.
What purpose does this quiz serve?
This quiz encourages honest introspection, helping you determine whether your attraction is based on a real connection or the excitement of being noticed. While it doesn’t provide absolute answers, it can offer valuable insight.
How does the quiz work?
The Do I Like Them or Just Their Attention Quiz consists of multiple-choice questions that examine your emotions, behaviors, and reactions in relationships. Based on your answers, it provides insight into the nature of your attraction.
General Frequently Asked Questions
Ask yourself if you’re drawn to them even when they’re not giving you attention. If you value their personality, enjoy spending time with them, and feel a connection beyond how they make you feel about yourself, your feelings may be genuine.
Yes! It’s common to mistake the excitement of being noticed for attraction. Feeling special or wanted can be enjoyable, but true romantic feelings go beyond external validation.
If you appreciate their quirks, enjoy their presence regardless of how they treat you, and feel a deep emotional or romantic connection even without constant validation, your attraction is likely genuine.
Real connection is consistent—you enjoy their company even in quiet moments, and your feelings persist over time. Momentary excitement, on the other hand, often fades when the attention is gone.
No, this quiz is a tool for self-reflection, but only you can determine your true feelings. Take your time exploring your emotions without pressure.
Be honest with yourself and the other person. If you recognize that your feelings stem from validation rather than genuine attraction, it’s okay to step back and reflect on what you truly want in a relationship.
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